Ladies. I am getting fed up with your kind.

I won't say I'm a smooth operator, but I'm in no way a stuttering dork with Asperger's syndrome. I have adequate social skills. I'm physically fit, 185 lbs of muscle, blond, blue-eyed, and smart. Plenty of people have told me I'm a handsome guy. For whatever reason, I can't seem to woo ladies. In fact, they seem to be afraid of me.

Girlfriends for me are far and few in between. Usually it's because they approached me first and I just ran with it. But being passive is boring if you're a guy, because let's face it; 95% of girls are passive when it comes to attracting a guy. As long as Western Civilization existed, it was usually the male that approached the female. What happens if I take a proactive approach like the rest of men? I fail. Every single time I tried to reel a girl in, I've failed. It's not like they walk away when I introduce myself. We can actually have lengthy, meaningful conversations. Then we exchange contacts and part ways. The failure is the followup.

All girls, and I mean all, that I approached suddenly get a different attitude. If I try to ask them out, they give me the "I'm busy at that time" BS or "I'm kinda sick right now" or some don't answer at all. I recently instant messaged this one girl, my first message to her, and then she goes offline a few seconds later. She didn't even bother to form a lie. She just ditched me. This shit drives me bonkers. This happened to me throughout middle school, high school, and now in college.

When will I approach a girl, that will talk, exchange numbers, then follow up? I keep getting denied the third part over and over. I'm starting to get worried because you hear about guys on the news that snap and start killing people over this issue. Becoming a psychopath is not high on my agenda list.

I'm getting more and more convinced I have to be a total dick to girls, because that's the culture we're in. It seems that girls view nice guys as possible serial rapists, thus why they avoid me like they're afraid. If I act like a dick, maybe that'll convince them I have no agenda? What a retarded system. I refuse to act like a dick, it's just against my nature. But being a nice guy makes girls run for the hills and lock their doors.

I don't want to be hit on by ugly girls all my life. When can I get what I want?